WHAT MADE YOU DUMP YOUR EX BF/GF?

Top reasons for break ups:
1. He/she wasn’t caring:

Neglecting your partner’s feelings is another really hurtful thing that can cause a breakup, and in fact does a lot of the time. People have emotions, even the guys who like to act like they don’t so much…and it really hurts when they’re never considered by the person whom the love the most. Always listen to your partner, and be considerate of how he/she feels.
2. Money:

Finally, the financial independence achieved by women had brought in a change in their attitude. They feel that their individuality must be respected and should not be interfered with. Their economic dependence on men is much less or non-existent compared to olden days when women stayed at home. Further, the separate careers result in men and women working in different places, thus increasing not only the physical distance but also the mental distance. This invariably leads to separation.
3. He/she was a liar:

Almost everybody lies, but where is the line drawn in a relationship? Everyone has at least lied once in a relationship before; we know that lying is completely wrong. But what if the intentions are good and he/she still lied to you about that would you still get upset and hold a grudge against your boyfriend or girlfriend? Partners in healthy relationships agree to reconcile their differences – and if they keep their promises, the relationship can stay strong.

 4. She was a whore:

The fact that your girlfriend is a whore is more than enough of a reason to end the relation ship. If she truly is a whore, the chances of her changing her behaviour towards men are very slim. You may not want to hear this, but its best you let her go now.

5. Bad performance in Bed:

It would be a depressing reason to break up but if your man can’t please you in the bed, he’s got to go. At the same time, if she won’t do what you love, why not find someone who will? If you can’t mesh well together in the bedroom, especially after a long period of time, then you two were probably not meant to share sheets.

6. Religious affairs:

Religious differences can cause a break up. Your partner not having the same religion as you can be a deal breaker. What happens when you get married? What religion do you both follow as a couple. It always better to cut your losses sooner than later.

7. He/she wanted sex so much:

Its common knowledge that too much of something isn’t always a good thing. Although you may love having sex just as much as the next person, a partner that insists on sex more than the average can be a reason for both parties to part ways, as you would be unable to satisfy each other.

8. Tribalism:

The country that we live in, Nigeria, can be quite tribalistic. That fact that your partner is not of your tribe can be a deal breaker. A lot of Nigerians today believe in only marrying someone of their tribe.

9. He/she was married:

having a partner that is already married is a more than obvious reason to break things off. Breaking it off to find your own life partner is the wisest thing to do.

10. Lack of romance:

Allowing a relationship to get boring and stale is perhaps one of the most tragic ways that one can end, as it’s pretty much just a case of so little going on that a person doesn’t really care anymore. Lack of romance and “spice” is a relationship’s enemy, although you don’t have to freak out if you aren’t doing something new every hour. Spend time together, and do things that are fun for both of you! It’s crazy to simply let a relationship “reach its expiration date.”

11. He/she used to cheat on you:

This blatant violations of trust often result in failed relationships. If the basic trust in a love relationship is repeatedly broken by cheating, the problems accumulate and the motivation to stay together decreases. However, consistent lying or cheating can explain why relationships end.

12. Lack of swag:
13. There was no goal/aim in the relationship: a partner with no life goals or motivation can appear to be a bit depressing. Move on seems to be the only solution here if your partner is in no way motivated to move ahead in life and ambition.
14. He/she wasn’t your size:

Lack of proper body maintenance, like becoming too fat can cause a break up between couples. This might seem obvious but, the truth is, people in love usually find the object of their affection to be attractive. If you once could but can no longer see beyond physical imperfections, you may be faced with a troubled union.

15. Age difference: Age difference can impair a relationship. Because of age difference, your priorities and life goals may be different which may cause a couple to eventually part ways.

 16. Influence from the parents/ relatives:

Everything was fine until her sister started hanging around and interfering with your relationship. You finally couldn’t take it anymore and broke up. Relatives can be a very huge part of your relationship whether you like it or not. Your family should love your significant other and if all they do is bump heads it will leave a lasting scar on your heart that is most likely everlasting. It’s a painful process to encounter fights between the family you love and the family you want to have. End it before things get really dirty with you and your family, they are the ones who will love you forever.

 17. Influence from friends:

Friends are unbelievably insightful and will invariably be the first indicators that they don’t like your relationship. It may be that they just don’t like your partner or it may be that they don’t like the effect he or she has on you.

Others, Specify;

*Abuse: This is the most obvious, surefire way to reason why couples break up. Different types of abuse are attempts to gain total control over a partner. Though relationships like this should end immediately

* Jealousy: jealousy can trigger abuse and violence, which can be why relationships end. Delusional jealousy isn’t a common problem couples face – but normal jealousy can be acceptable to a certain extent.